So I think I potentially fucked up with a guy I like.
After hanging out for 2 weeks non stop, making out, being cute as fuck, and he even slept over. Things were moving fast, well he thought so anyway, so he pulled back.
More so he’s not completely over his crush on my friend who introduced us. (Yes, cue the I’m a rebound statement here). But my friend is now exclusive with another guy, and this kind of made the guy I like feel like shit. I decided, well I’m not going to stand for this.
So, taking the advice from my friend, I let this guy know that I have other options. AKA went on a date, that never actually happened. You know, so that he can hurry the fuck up. And funnily enough, it worked, he got a little jealous.
But suddenly he pulled back again, and we talked about this last night. I’ve come to the conclusion, honesty is best, and don’t listen to your friends.
Basically he said that he liked me, until he heard about this date that I went on, and he decided that for some reason I was set on this “guy”. Who btw let’s recap, doesn’t even exist.I had to do some damage control, and basically said the “date” was a once off, and that in all honesty, I’m interested in getting to know him. (It’s scary being honest sometimes).
Fuck my life, but I think we’re okay now. He said we should hang out after he’s done with all his work (he’s super busy with uni atm). But damn, talk about stupid decisions.
More than anything, I’ve learned to take things step by step. I don’t know why I’m always in such a hurry. But yeah, we’ll hang out as friends and see where things go. No pressure, I think.